Local Resources
• Catholic Charities Counseling Services [link]
• Cedar Valley Hospice [link]
• Continuous Care Support Groups [Phone 319-505-3048]
• Lutheran Services of Iowa [link]
National Resources
• American Foundation for Suicide Prevention/Survivors Support Group [link]
• Open to Hope—Finding Hope After Loss [link]
• Way of the Cross--Reflections on Sickness and Dying. Salt & Light Media [link]
• "Lamentation--the Weight of Grief." Ignatian Spirituality. [link]
• Litany of Our Lady of Sorrows [link]
• Pray As You Go Meditation on Grief [link]
• "Prayer Exercise for Grief." Pray As You Go audio [link]
• "A Prayer Journey Through Grief." Elizabeth Elliott. BustedHalo [link]
• "Prayer While Grieving." Becky Eldridge. Grotto Network. [link]
• The Seven Sorrows of Mary [link]
• Virtual Remembrance Retreat. BustedHalo [link]
Online Resources
Resources for Family and Friends
• "What You Should Know About Grief" [link]
• "Being a Companion Through the Mystery of Suffering." Julia Walsh. U.S. Catholic [link]
• "Five Things You Should Never Say to Someone Who's Grieving." Gemma Hartley. Aleteia. May,
2018 [link]
• "Five Tips for Writing a Meaningful Sympathy Note." Teresa Coda. BustedHalo [link]
• "Friends Through It All." Andy Otto. BustedHalo. September 11, 2017 [link]
• "How Not to Help a Friend in Sorrow." Maria Popaova. Brain Pickings. 12.20.20 [link]
• "How to Help Someone Who Has Lost a Loved One." Dan Masterson. Grotto Network. [link]
• "Nine Ways to Help a Grieving Friend." Sarah Garone. BustedHalo [link]
• "Six Ways to Help Those Grieving the Loss of a Spouse". Bill Dodds. Our Sunday Visitor. [link]
• "What to Say and Not to Say to Someone Who's Grieving.:" The New York Times. 02.17.19 [link]
• "What To Say to Someone Who Lost a Parent or Loved One." Matt Berical. Fatherly. 01.17.20 [link]
• "What to Say When You Don't Know What to Say--In Times of Grief, Heartache and Crisis." H.
Norman Wright. Harvest House. 2014 [link]
Published Resources
• Coping With Loss--Praying Your Way to Acceptance. Carol Luebering. Franciscan Media. [link]
• Forgiveness Is a Choice: A Step-By-Step Process for Resolving Anger and Restoring Hope. Robert
Enright. American Psychological Assn. 2001 [link]
• The Forgiving Life--A Pathway to Overcoming Resentment and Creating a Legacy of Love. Robert
Enright. American Psychological Assn. 2012 [link]
• Live and Forget--Healing the Hurts We Don't Deserve. Lewis B. Smedes. HarperOne. 2007. [link]
• The Cure for Sorrow--A Book of Blessings for Times of Grief. Jan Richardson. Wanton Gospeller Peress.
2016 [link]
• Facing Forgiveness--A Catholic's Guide to Letting Go of Anger and Welcoming Reconciliation.
Loughlan Sofield. Ave Maria Press. 2007 [link]
• The Forgiveness Book. Alice Camille and Paul Boudreau. ACTA Publications. 2008. [link]
• Forgiveness--A Catholic Approach. R. Scott Hurd. Pauline Books. 2011 [link]
• Friends Through It All. Andy Otto (Busted Halo. 2017 [link]
• The Geography of God's Mercy. Patrick Hannon. ACTA Publications. 2007 [link]
• God Knows You're Grieving. Joan Guntzelman. Ave Maria Press. 2001 [link]
• Good Grief. Granger Westberg. Fortress Press. 2010 [link]
• Grief Day By Day--Simple Practices and Daily Guidance for Living with Loss. Jan Warner. Althea Press
[link]
• The Grief of Dads--Support and Hope for Catholic Fathers Navigating Child Loss. Patrick O'Hearn et.al. Ave Maria Press. 2023 [link]
• Grieving--A Spiritual Process for Catholics. Paula Kosin. Liturgy Training Publications. 2023. [link]
• The Way Men Heal. Thomas Golden. GH Publishing. 2014. [link]
• It's OK That You're Not OK. Megan Devine. Sounds True. 2017. [link]
• Jacob's Choir--Essays from the Intersection of Grief and Hope. Charles Eugene Poole. Nurturing Faith Books. 2023. [link]
• Life After Death--Practical Help for the Widowed. Elizabeth Bookser Barkley. Franciscan Media [link]
• The New Face of Grief. Katie Rossler. [link]
• May You Find Comfort--A Blessing for Times of Grieving. Sr. Joyce Rupp. Ave Maria Press. 2010 [link]
• One Day He Beckoned—One Woman’s Story. Ave Maria Press. 2004 [link]
• Owen's Light. Jeanette Steiner. (Independent) 2024. [link]
• Praying Our Goodbyes—A Spiritual Companion Through Life’s Losses and Sorrows. Sr. Joyce
Rupp. Ave Maria Press. 2013 [link]
• Processing Through Grief—Guided Exercises to Understand Your Emotions and Recover From
Loss. Stephanie Jose. Althea Press. 2016 [link]
• Reflections and Prayers After the Loss of a Spouse. Virginia Stillwell. Twenty-Third Publications. 2022.
[link]
• Sparrow--A Book of Life and Death and Life. Jan Richardson. Wanton Gospeller Press. 2029 [link]
• Time to Say Goodbye--A Grief Activity Workbook for Kids and Their Families. Mary Kathleen Glavich.
Twenty-Third Publications. 2022. [link]
• Understanding Your Grief--Ten Essential Touchstones for Finding Hope and Healing Your Heart. Alan
Wolfeld. Companion Press. 2021 [link]
• The Unwanted Blessing. Jim Stallings. Resource Publications. 2018. [link]
• Toward Peace--Prayers for the Widowed. Beverly S. Gordon. Franciscan Media. [link]
• Without God and the Church I Wouldn't Have Survived. Letitia Ochoa Adams. National Catholic Reporter.
[link]
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[Last Update: 10.24..23]