May I Join the Catholic Church Without a Decree of Invalidity?
Married persons who wish to join the Catholic Church must be in a marriage recognized by the Church. A person who was previously married, then divorced and remarried must obtain a Decree of Invalidity for the first marriage (and any previous marriages) before they can be received into the Catholic Church. A non-Catholic may enter into an initiation process like the Rite of Initiation or the Rite of Reception before a decree is obtained, but not be received into the church until the annulment is approved. Catholics believe that marriage is a relationship of life and love between a husband and wife. This loving relationship both requires and enables total self-giving, permanent commitment, and an openness to new life between the spouses. For this reason, Catholics believe that marriage can be a sacrament -- a sacred sign of God's relationship with the human race, a relationship which is total, permanent, and life-giving. To enter into and to continue living in this sacred relationship, a couple must have both the ability and the desire to make their marriage a sacramental sign of God's love.
In his Apostolic Exhortation Amoris Laetitia, Pope Francis wrote:
The sacrament of marriage is not a social convention, an empty ritual, or merely the outward
sign of a commitment. The sacrament is a gift given for the sanctification and salvation of the
spouses, since their mutual belonging is a real representation, through the sacramental sign,
of the same relationship between Christ and the Church. The married couple are therefore a
permanent reminder for the Church of what took place on the cross; they are for one another
and for their children witnesses of the salvation in which they share through the sacrament.
In accepting each other, and with Christ’s grace, the engaged couple promise each other total
self-giving, faithfulness and openness to new life. The couple recognizes these elements as
constitutive of marriage, gifts offered to them by God, and take seriously their mutual commit-
ment, in God’s name and in the presence of the Church. Faith thus makes it possible for them
to assume the goods of marriage as commitments that canbe better kept through the help of
the grace of the sacrament....
...[T]he sacrament of marriage flows from the incarnation and the paschal mystery, whereby
God showed the fullness of his love for humanity by becoming one with us. Neither of the
spouses will be alone in facing whatever challenges may come their way. Both are called to
respond to God’s gift with commitment, creativity, perseverance and daily effort. They can
always invoke the assistance of the Holy Spirit who consecrated their union, so that his grace
may be felt in every new situation that they encounter.
Last Update: 01.05.20